Semi-retired blog

I’m sooo over blogging! So everything here is now archived, and much of it is no longer publicly available. I’ve left my favorite bits of writing, the bits that you should read over and over and over again! You’re welcome.

 

If you want to see the pictures, videos, links and more that were once on this blog, they’ve been moved to Greedy Snobs. Beg for an invitation to my Exclusive Site in order to see them. Or even better: tribute & beg!

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On Greed

greed

/grid/ –noun

excessive or rapacious desire, especially for wealth or possessions.

I love words. Words are at the essential center of communication. And communication is at the essential center of getting what I want. And there is the first sign of “greed” in this post! I’m greedy for what I want. For everything that I want. I’m greedy for words. There is a reason that I took the name Greedy Goddess Sue when I started playing online. Greed = desire. Greed = excessive desire. MY excessive desire.

Greed has a slew of connotations in western culture, mostly negative. Greed is one of the Deadly Sins, similar to Lust and Gluttony, is a sin of excess. And like Lust and Gluttony, I like Greed. I am, quite obviously, not a believer in Deadly Sins. And even if I was, these are the 3 Deadly Sins that I would ride to hell because I am unwilling to give up one of my favorite indulgences of this world: EXCESS.

Greed is often defined, as above, as related to material wealth. And I love/want/desire material wealth. But Greed is more accurately described for me as the desire for an excess of many things: money, wealth, status and POWER. For me the material wealth that most people associate with Greed is divine, but it is only powerful for me as an indicator of power. Like it or not, in our world money=power. She who has the most … wins. Greed also refers to a wealth of experiences that I am gredy for: life, love, pleasure, knowledge, art and music and laughter, greed for causing pain and evoking tears, and so so much more.

And fetishizing my greed is sexy. Period. Whether you find it sexy or not doesn’t matter… to me it is sexy. And for the minds that I mold like clay to my desires, it becomes sexy to them as well. The expression of my Greed in the forms of financial fetishism is sexy, a tangible and very real expression of my POWER. And my status.

And too much is never enough. I’ve never experienced poverty, never experienced real lack the way that millions around the world have. I don’t have to experience poverty to know that I wouldn’t like it. I wouldn’t like the lack of basic necessities, the lack of extravagant goodies, the lack of the ability to do what I want when I want, the lack of status, the lack of POWER. I can say with supreme confidence that: I. Would. Not. Like. It. And I can say with equally supreme confidence I will never experience it, because of my Greed. Life has its ups and downs and things happen that we have no control over (even for me!), but having a buffer of money and power makes the downs less painful and the ups more enjoyable!

Having the ability to transform life into something more beautiful and extravagant is a beautiful thing. Having that ability because of my Greed (and because of those who serve me AND my Greed) is simply gorgeous. I know some people will never understand this. Which is fine. I’ll never understand Nascar, we live in different worlds!

My Greed is a deep, sensual desire for More. A nearly sexual craving to have everything I want, and then some. While some would call that “wasteful” I disagree. It isn’t waste, it serves a purpose: my pleasure and my happiness. In our culture having a greedy desire for pleasure and happiness is almost as despised as having a greedy desire for material wealth. I accept that perception, but the perception does not make it true. For me it is good. Greed IS good. Greed curls my toes and puts a smile on my face. This is good.

Greed, for me, is  a lust for life. I don’t quite understand people who equate greed with guilt. I will never be the self-martyring type of person. I will never be the self-flagellating, monk-like, self-denying type. I’m not wired that way. I’m thrilled that there are people who are this way, though, they are the yin to my yang, the complementing personality that feeds my greed. I give purpose to the masochistic need to give, to surrender, to sacrifice, to hurt. My Greed literally feeds upon that masochistic need, growing stronger and ever-more empowered with every sacrifice. And that cycle is nearly religious in nature – the cycle of sacrifice and POWER feeding each other endlessly. There’s a religious notion that I can believe in (hence “Goddess” but that is another topic entirely).

I never have and never will apologize for my Greed. I am Greedy. I am proud of being Greedy, I revel in it. I celebrate it. I am Greedy for life and love. I am Greedy for wealth and power. I am Greedy for happiness and pleasure. For the minds, hearts and souls of those around me. I want it all.

My Greed is good.

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Words of Goddess Sue Wisdom

Repost from discussion forum question, “How long before tribute happens?”

While most of my long-term subs tributed and/or sent present(s) out of respect and a desire to impress me before they ever even approached me, it is not required nor is it expected. Nor does it guarantee that they will get my attention.

If I don’t want to talk to someone, or if I’m not interested in them, then I won’t talk to them and they can’t “buy” my time. If I want to talk to someone, I’ll talk to them whenever and however I want to talk to them, whether they’ve tributed or not. If I am testing them and their reactions, or I’m digging around in their head a bit, or even if I just find the conversation interesting, I’ll talk to them.

What I won’t do, and what many subs seem to think they “deserve” for their tribute, is go through some lengthy job interview process where they interogate me about who I am, how I dominate my subs, how I hypnotize my subs, what they can expect if they decide to “choose” me as their Domme.

Not only do I find that process boring and laughable, but it indicates that what they are seeking is incompatible with what I am seeking. If they are looking to “hire” a Domme that meets all of their pre-concieved fantasies of submission, someone who will work really, really hard to fulfill their fantasies, then they are S.O.L. and should look elsewhere. And fortunately for them, there are lots of people out there who will work that hard to fulfill their wants.

Yet that entire mentality and attitude goes against the power dynamics that I seek and that I foster. They have to prove to me that they are worthy of my attention, whether is it positive or negative attention. Not the other way around. They have to jump through hoops to prove to me that they are worthy of being under consideration to serve me. Not the other way around.

Too often when I see subs start talking about deciding whether they want to serve me (or even talking in general about deciding whether they want to serve in general), they telegraph the between-the-lines message that they are taking the Domme under consideration to see if she is worthy to serve his fetish fantasies.

*scoff*

Yeah, um, no thanks!

This isn’t to say that there aren’t valid reasons to consider who you will serve, whether you can trust them, whether you are compatible, etc. etc. etc.. But it is to say that you can find all of that out without having to talk to her every day for a year with the Domme. Or even for months on end, or even weeks.

If you are fortunate enough that a Domme does speak with you, then count yourself lucky, but she doesn’t “owe” it to you just because you slapped a “submissive” lable on yourself. And in a bit of you-create-what-you-fear-most-irony, holding out tribute as some sort of carrot to dangle in front of a Domme will only get the attention of women who are after your money exclusively.

If you make all of the conversations about money only, then you’re assuring that money is the primary factor. Which is great for her to know. Some subs are only good for their money and literally nothing else!

If she’s willing to jump through hoops to get your money, that tells you something. And if you fuck up the power exchange by trying to control the initial contact(s), then you have no one to blame but yourself when the entire relationship remains fucked up and gets more fucked up as time goes by.

Finding out information about your future Domme is a good thing. But rather than think she’s under some obligation to tell you all about herself and prove herself to you, you should prove yourself by doing the legwork yourself and finding out on your own.

If you want to get to know who I am – do the work yourself. A bonus: it’s good practice for your future service, you’ll be doing all the work so that I don’t have to for a very, very long time. I have a blog, several websites, a presence on several discussion forums, and a reputation in the community.

If you want to get to know me even more through conversations? – approach politely and make yourself interesting. Be worth talking to and I may talk to you, if you’re lucky. Be boring, demanding, bratty, or rude and I will simply ignore you.

If you want to know in great detail what submitting to me will be like? – then you’ll have to take a leap to find out.

I’d think those were pretty good guidelines for for approaching anyone. Basic manners and rational expectations rarely will misguide you.

-Goddess Sue

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Big “B” little “b”

 

Bitch – the one who cares more about getting her way then about the feelings of all the little people in her way. I’m a Bitch and proud of it.

bitch – the one who cares more about doing anything She wants than about his little feelings. You’re a bitch and you should be proud of it.

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